First I want to apologize for not having written i a while. But inbetween school, temple trips and weddings I haven't had a lot of time the last couple of weeks. But I will try to write at least three times a week now.
Today I want to write about a song from Incubus. It's called Earth to Bella.
Incubus - Earth to Bella
http://open.spotify.com/track/4y4hP02p0od6OT8AGVvnvX
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AK5kk0MB_ZI
The sentence in this song that really grabbed my attention was: "And before you swim you've gotta be okay to sink".
I feel that this is a fact of life. In order to learn and grow you have to be aware that there is a risk that you might sink, and you have to be willing to take that risk.
It's the same for all new talents either you are learning to ride a bike, play football, play the guitar or any other talent you have to be ready to fail and to fall to be able to succeed.
Let's use the example of learning how to swim. It's preatty dangerous. How do you learn to swim? There is really only one way, you have to jump in the water, flap your arms and push your legs and hope for the best. And either you are a quick learner or you sink. And most people do sink the first time. And what have we accomplished then? Well now we know one way of not swimming.
Thomas Edison who discovered how to use electricity for lighting had some interesting qoutes:
He said, after having failed in making a working light bulb again, "We now know a thousand ways not to build a light bulb".
Later he said “I haven't failed, I've found 10,000 ways that don't work”.
He also said “I never failed once. It just happened to be a 2000-step process.”
About the human nature he commented that “Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time.”
On another site I read said that failure is a detour, not a dead end street", just go back and try again.
Don't be afraid to sink, fall or fail, because after a 1000 times you will get it right. You are not a failure because you fail once, just continue until you succed. Thomas Alva Edison is remembered as our times greatest inventor because he failed 10 000 times and succeeded once. Perfection is achieved in the end, it's just a long and rough process, like Edison it might be a 2000-step process.
In order to learn in this life you must sink, and you will learn many ways not to swim, but in the end you will swim.
Another good song in this topic is Onerepublic with all fall down.
OneRepublic - All fall down
http://open.spotify.com/track/7E8KvZOi2YLQmpAW88DKZ7
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dm814YsrJ6A
- VforVegard
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Thursday, October 21, 2010
Tuesday, October 5, 2010
Painted youself into a corner? Are you going to choose the easy or hard way out?
This weekend was something we call General Conference in the church, its a satelite transmitted meeting worldwide that lets all of all leaders talk to the entire world at once. You can read more about it at http://www.lds.org/ and http://www.mormon.org/. Today I want to give you some impressions I had from a talk from meeting. And these songs might give you an idea of what the talk was about. I will especially encourage you to listen to the first song and read the lyrics.
Relient K - When I go down - Lyrics (http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/relientk/whenigodown.html)
http://open.spotify.com/track/0UnmayheSTYN52BlZij5Qc
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TDskMF54vnw
Incubus - Dig
http://open.spotify.com/track/5Ewxkv3FsTwxJUDbOPAOwL
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nMsZ6wkZWhA&ob=av2e
Incubus - Love hurts
http://open.spotify.com/track/2kMdKdVh0t03HBuRcstafT
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zxPcmi1U25g
Incubus - Diamonds and coal
http://open.spotify.com/track/43utXSeYkkua81p25Z2TFw
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3m3kvTE7XKI
Snow Patrol - Run
http://open.spotify.com/track/19EmyfsVBD9YnLrxPPrDaH
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AOBs8dU4Pb8&ob=av2n
But at this conference there was a talk that impressed me. In this talk the person gave an example of a man painting the floor of a room and he had the bright idea of starting from the door and then painted himself into a corner. A well know mistake for most of us. But his point was that when you are in this corner that you have painted youself into there is no window and no door and it seems like there is no way out of there, well there still is a way. But it will be a painfull and you will have to repair the damage. The solution is to walk over the floor, ruining some of the floor you have already painted and then fixing it again afterwards. It will hurt your pride, it will hurt the floor and it will demand some work.
How many of us would like to just paint ourselfs a window to escape out of when we have painted ourselfs into the corner? Why are we looking for the easy way out? Looking for the quick fix and running away from the difficult path of redemption. What happens if we do this?
In stead of going through the hard way, that might seem overwhelming we choose the easy way, because we think that we can escape our problems by not facing them. We think that if you don't have to face them we don't have to face the though and hard feelings that come with facing them. We thikn that if we run it won't catch up with us and we can continue living like nothing happened. But what are the consequenses of running?
We also let go of a wonderful opportunity of learning. We might leave someone hurt behind and do not heal their or our wounds. And you leave the past to haunt you. Like a bad consience that never will let you feel comfortable with yourself again.
What if you choose the hard way? What if you take the pain and face the hurt, problems and troubles that you have caused? Like diamonds and coal we need to be refined and it burs. But when you do this you say yes to the opportunity to learn from your mistakes. You are proving that you are not the proud one that declines help and refuses to see that, like everyone else I also have flaws. And that makes you kind, merciful and human. And you accept that each situation has something to teach you about life.
A part of the hard path is doing good what you did wrong. This will help you get closure. Either if it was towards yourself or towards others. You must forgive yourself or others, or apologize to yourself or others. And the ghost of your past will not haunt you. But leave you with a feeling of peace, calm and you will have become wiser.
So whenever you think about taking the easy way out, think about what the consequences of that choice is. Do you want hurt feelings and your conscious to haunt you. Or do you accept that every hard path is a way to learn and get closure in your life. Healing yourself and the people around you. Don't run, but face the opportunity in front of you. You problems do not go away simply if they are ignored. (Relient K)
- VforVegard
Relient K - When I go down - Lyrics (http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/relientk/whenigodown.html)
http://open.spotify.com/track/0UnmayheSTYN52BlZij5Qc
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TDskMF54vnw
Incubus - Dig
http://open.spotify.com/track/5Ewxkv3FsTwxJUDbOPAOwL
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nMsZ6wkZWhA&ob=av2e
Incubus - Love hurts
http://open.spotify.com/track/2kMdKdVh0t03HBuRcstafT
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zxPcmi1U25g
Incubus - Diamonds and coal
http://open.spotify.com/track/43utXSeYkkua81p25Z2TFw
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3m3kvTE7XKI
Snow Patrol - Run
http://open.spotify.com/track/19EmyfsVBD9YnLrxPPrDaH
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AOBs8dU4Pb8&ob=av2n
But at this conference there was a talk that impressed me. In this talk the person gave an example of a man painting the floor of a room and he had the bright idea of starting from the door and then painted himself into a corner. A well know mistake for most of us. But his point was that when you are in this corner that you have painted youself into there is no window and no door and it seems like there is no way out of there, well there still is a way. But it will be a painfull and you will have to repair the damage. The solution is to walk over the floor, ruining some of the floor you have already painted and then fixing it again afterwards. It will hurt your pride, it will hurt the floor and it will demand some work.
How many of us would like to just paint ourselfs a window to escape out of when we have painted ourselfs into the corner? Why are we looking for the easy way out? Looking for the quick fix and running away from the difficult path of redemption. What happens if we do this?
In stead of going through the hard way, that might seem overwhelming we choose the easy way, because we think that we can escape our problems by not facing them. We think that if you don't have to face them we don't have to face the though and hard feelings that come with facing them. We thikn that if we run it won't catch up with us and we can continue living like nothing happened. But what are the consequenses of running?
We also let go of a wonderful opportunity of learning. We might leave someone hurt behind and do not heal their or our wounds. And you leave the past to haunt you. Like a bad consience that never will let you feel comfortable with yourself again.
What if you choose the hard way? What if you take the pain and face the hurt, problems and troubles that you have caused? Like diamonds and coal we need to be refined and it burs. But when you do this you say yes to the opportunity to learn from your mistakes. You are proving that you are not the proud one that declines help and refuses to see that, like everyone else I also have flaws. And that makes you kind, merciful and human. And you accept that each situation has something to teach you about life.
A part of the hard path is doing good what you did wrong. This will help you get closure. Either if it was towards yourself or towards others. You must forgive yourself or others, or apologize to yourself or others. And the ghost of your past will not haunt you. But leave you with a feeling of peace, calm and you will have become wiser.
So whenever you think about taking the easy way out, think about what the consequences of that choice is. Do you want hurt feelings and your conscious to haunt you. Or do you accept that every hard path is a way to learn and get closure in your life. Healing yourself and the people around you. Don't run, but face the opportunity in front of you. You problems do not go away simply if they are ignored. (Relient K)
- VforVegard
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